One of the worse things you can do is attempt to fit your ambitious partner into a conventional mold, or try to change anyone for that matter. If you happen to be interested in/involved with an ambitious person, here are seven things you need to know. Sometimes, I prefer to work instead of going out with my significant other.
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My SO and I are both in the legal field and want to practice the same kind of law in the same city.
Our resumes mirror each other’s in a lot of ways, and I can’t help but feel the tension sometimes.
We tend to focus on the classic reasons why relationships can go sour (i.e., lying, cheating, abuse, etc), never realizing that a lack of compatibility can force a wedge between any couple.
More often than not, the termination of a relationship is the result of two people who, at their core, are incompatible, and unable to respect the aspects of each other’s personality that they could not understand.
Were someone to call a woman a “loser” for being, say, a career grad student or some kind of lowbrow service professional, I feel it would be met with cries of “Hey, at least she’s trying! ” Of course, the joke’s on them, because justifying someone’s career choice undermines that person’s freedom of choice, and chastising one group for judging another while encouraging the same thing among your own group is the very opposite of equality.
Unfashionable as it may be, I’m going to go ahead and say that, in 2013, men need to stop dating losers. When women deride a man as being a “useless loser,” what they really seem to be complaining about is someone who blindly, uncompromisingly places his own prerogatives above all else, often at the expense of others.
First of all, it’s difficult to develop a meaningful relationship when both of you are working 60-100 hours as week on a consistent basis.
Add to that (and you mentioned this earlier about yourself), a lot of us get really competitive with our significant others about our careers.
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